Archive for April, 2007

4/30/2007

  • Congrats to the Lovely Suse for her big promotion. She’s going to rule that school with an iron fist!
  • The first of back-to-back first birthday parties. From what I can gather, the main purpose of these events is to watch the kid roll around in a big pile of wrapping paper, stuff ribbons into their mouth, and smear cake all over their face. Good times! This one featured the biggest birthday cake I’ve ever seen, about eight inches tall and 18 inches across, with lots of ducks and duck butts on top. And an eleven pound ham. I was not disappointed.
  • Speaking of first birthdays, I know of a very cute puppy who turns one on Wednesday.
  • After many weeks of back-order, I finally got my flash last week. I’m just stunned at the difference it makes in portraits and action shots. All of a sudden, I can take the photos that I’m actually trying to. Here are some shots of Alex and Rachel (who will be celebrating the big “1″ next weekend) exploring our house. I’m glad that I’ll have the chance to practice with my new equipment before showtime.
  • The new Tivo power supply arrives tomorrow. Let’s keep our fingers crossed. We’ve more or less had nothing to watch for the past week.
  • I”m enjoying watching the Sox these days. I almost feel sorry for the Yankees fans in my family. Almost. Is there anything better than napping on your sofa on a weekend afternoon with your puppy with the Sox-Yanks on TV, and when you wake up, the Sox lead has grown even bigger?
  • How long does a whoopie pie last? The Lovely Suse is working on one that is currently 8 days old. It’s still soft and fresh looking, but that just scares me.

Tags: 2007, topten Comments (1)

Sadness

sad tivo

It is a sad, sad day in the Carpenter household. After three and a half years of faithful service and thankless dedication, our Tivo died last night. What started with a curiously burnt out wireless network adapter followed with an unprecedented reboot in the middle of watching a show. While it successfully restarted and seemed back to normal, in the middle of the night, the last gasps of air were heard from the struggling machine. It kept trying to restart itself, spinning its hard disk up and down, over and over. I finally pulled the plug at 12:30AM. The time of death was duly recorded.

This morning, hoping for a miracle, I plugged it back in hoping some rest had resuscitated it. No lights, no spinning hard drive. Just the faint whisper of the fan. I cracked it open, thinking that maybe a hard drive swap would do the trick. Still, nothing. It was hopeless. Our 120 hours of shows (ok, so there were 90 Suggested Shows recorded, but there were still lots of stuff that we actually wanted to watch), our dozens of season passes, years of memories, gone. Or were they?

This isn’t as tragic as it all sounds. A little research tells me that this may simply be a dead power supply, one that can easily be purchased here. If that’s the case, we will be able to bring our much-loved Tivo back to life. There’s still hope. And there’s the fact that we do have a second Tivo in the basement. We just can’t get the shows off the old one in the meantime. And if it’s not the power supply, I’ll try buying a used one on Ebay and just swap out the hard drive. I think that should work. But let’s hope it doesn’t get to that point.

It’s times like these that I realize how much we depend on our Tivo and how much it’s changed the way we watch TV. Never having to think about what time a show is on, never having to watch commercials, and always having something good to watch has become a way of life for us. Watching live TV is just painful at this point. I don’t think we could ever go back to normal TV, and will be glad when our Tivo is back healthy and happy. Keep your fingers crossed.

Tags: 2007, tivo, tv Comments (1)

4/23/2007

  • After a very very very long winter, Spring has finally sprung. Being able to wear a t-shirt and flip-flops made me as giddy as a little schoolgirl. I swear, I turn into a completely different person when the weather is as nice as this. I walk around smiling and saying hello to people, I drive around with the windows down and the music turned up, and can just sit in the house with all of the windows open and the breeze blowing through and the sun shining in. Why the hell don’t we live in this year round?
  • As if the weekend wasn’t nice enough, a Red Sox sweep of the Yanks makes it that much nicer.
  • From what I hear, it was a very lovely baby shower on Saturday. Although a room full of baby stuff has made this whole thing no closer to reality. I sort of just look at the piles of onesies and diapers and books and toys and say “hey, who is all of this stuff for?” and “what the hell do i do with this stuff?” You mean there’s actually going to be a baby in here soon? Um, ok.
  • The baby got a “My first Yankees t-shirt” at the shower along with some other Yankees outfits. Luckily, my mom countered with some Red Sox gear. Still, I just won’t be able to bring myself to ever dress this child in anything Yankees related. If the Lovely Suse chooses to, well, there’s really nothing I can do about it.
  • I had my first ever celebrity sighting on Saturday, only I was the celebrity. Standing in line at Formaggio, I hear a woman say “Excuse me, is your name Pete Carpenter?” “Um, yes”, I respond, trying like hell to remember where I should know this person from. “I read your blog” she replied. Ohhhhhhhhhh, ok! Phew. To my reader Karen (I hope I remmebered your name!), thanks for the kind words and for saying hi. I have to say, this was the first time some one I don’t know has ever recognized me from this site. I have to keep reminding myself that people actually read this thing. So if you ever see me out in public, come up and say hi. Maybe you’ll be lucky enough to meet the Lovely Suse too!
  • The great all-organic lawn care experiment has begun. Needless to say, all of the dogs in the neighborhood are going nuts from the chicken poop all over the yard. And miraculously, my lawnmower still works even though I forgot to drain out the gas last fall. I was half hoping it was dead so that I could get an electric one.
  • The new guest suite is a big hit. If there was a shower and a fridge, I’m convinced that the Lovely Suse’s parents might move in.
  • I successfully sold off my old computer parts on Ebay for more than I expected. After all is said and done, I’ll end up paying $50 for a complete computer upgrade. Um, maybe I’ll be doing this every year.
  • IdealBite.com is a cool little website that although a bit chick-centric, has good ideas for making your life a little bit greener every day. Lots of interesting and useful tips every day through their email newsletter.
  • Dinner at Rendezvous Central Square. A former Burger King turned into Steve Johnson’s fantastic Mediterannean spot with excellent service, a bustling dining room and bar, and great scenery in the funky folks on Mass. Ave. in Central Square. Oh, and the food is pretty fantastic too, with all of our favorite ingredients featured. We shared a frisee salad with apples, duck confit, and spiced walnuts, the vegetable antipasto with roasted eggplant puree, the seared scallops with sfron aioli and orange-fennel broth, and the grilled baby octopus with fennel, black olives, and a chickpea panisse. Yes, I know we’ve been eating very well lately, but we know that this fine dining will be ending very shortly. Might as well enjoy it while we can. Still, we hope that we’ll manage to still go out for dinner with the baby. We just need to schedule it during naptime.

Tags: 2007, topten Comments (1)

4/16/2007

  • Another year older, another year sexier. I had a nice relaxing birthday weekend, ate well, got some nice gifts, and got some stuff done around the house, and a big giant whoopie pie. What more could I ask for?
  • A shiny new lens. I’m sure I’ll be doing a lot of experimenting with this one. Here’s my first shot here.
  • After seeing this recipe in the Times a couple of weeks ago, I knew we had to try to make some falafel. More on this later.
  • After contemplating throwing my computer out of the window last week after watching it sputter and hesitate one too many times, I finally decided to upgrade the stupid thing. A new motherboard, dual-core processor, and memory later, it’s like a brand new machine. I’m sorry I ever called you stupid, computer. I didn’t mean it. Look for the old parts to show up on ebay any day now.
  • The now annual birthday dinner at Craigie Street Bistrot, our favorite restaurant in the Boston area. I’ve spoken about it plenty of other times, but it never fails to disappoint. Terrine of chicken, quail, foie gras, and duck liver, duck proscuitto with baby potatoes, fennel, and white asparagus, Spanish-style octopus with fresh hearts of palm, and my current favorite food in the whole wide world: crispy braised pork belly. Actually, pork two ways. Two different cuts all tender and crispy. And to finish it off, a dessert of everything that we love: sour milk panna cotta with blood oranges, candied fennel, and fennel syrup. And as if the night wasn’t great enough, we got one of the four parking spots in front of the restaurant. All in all, a flawless evening.
  • George and mirrors don’t get along.
  • Speaking of George, we’re in the process of preparing him for the arrival of the baby. Since we got him last summer, he’s spent every night sleeping in his crate in the kitchen. He’s generally pretty good, but every now and then, he’ll wake us up at 3am whining and crying, wanting to get out. This won’t work so well when we’re up at all hours dealing with the baby, so something has to change. We’ve experimented the last few nights by letting him sleep in our room, either in his own bed or in his travel crate. So far, so good. After a few minutes of trying unsuccessfully to jump up on the bed (it’s sort of funny seeing his head pop up eery few seconds while he’s trying to jump up), he quietly goes to one of his beds and goes to sleep. And stays asleep. He might get up in the middle of the night and walk around the bed a little, or even try to jump up again, but eventually goes back to sleep. And he stays in bed until 6:30, which is at least an hour later than before. Let’s hope this experiment continues to be a success.
  • With the exception of the actual crib (we don’t really need one of those, do we?), the baby’s room is pretty much all set up. The guest room has moved down to the finished basement, which is now the biggest and coziest bedroom in the house. It took a feat of geometric engineering to fit the bed down the back stairs, but we got it done.

Tags: 2007, topten Comments (1)

4/9/2007

  • We celebrated our first Easter with the family this year. In past years, we’ve celebrated by getting tacos at Baja. Easter is pretty cool. It’s like Christmas, but with more candy, no presents, and more ham. Mmmmm, ham.
  • We bought a camcorder last week which we will be returning immediately. How is it not essential that video shot by cameras these days look better than the big giant cameras that I used back in 1990? Just terrible video quality. Anyone have any recommendations?
  • Hello? Spring? Yeah, I’d love to get some warm weather and sunshine please? What was that? You’re busy melting glaciers in Antarctica? Oh OK. Whenever you get a chance then. I’d like to stop wearing my winter coat sometime soon.
  • Look! It’s my main cheese-man Robert on TV!
  • Struggling to stay awake on the drive down to CT, I made the Lovely Suse play the game where you have to name a country, and then next person has to name a country starting with the last letter of the previous one. She being the smartie (and obviously not wanting to entertain me), started off with “Mexico”. I spent the next 15 minutes trying to come up with a country that begins with “O”. I finally came up with “Oman”, although I wasn’t really sure whether or not it was an actual country. A phone call to have my bro google it confirmed that it was indeed an actual country. Score! That at least kept me awake for a while. We followed that with the name a state and the capital game, which we crushed. I need to come up with some new games.
  • Dinner at Carol Peck’s Good News Cafe. That is seriously one of the biggest menus I’ve ever seen, but really good stuff.
  • If there was any doubt that they baby growing inside the Lovely Suse’s belly is mine, the fact that she is now addicted to sweets and actually thinks that cake looks good will put all doubts to rest. Cake!
  • I got my hair cut on Friday. I now have short hair. Total number of people who have noticed or commented on it: 0.
  • “Put it up to your ear and talk into it.”
  • It’s my birthday this week. Please refrain from buying any gifts for me and instead buy loads of Red Sox apparel for my unborn child. I’m starting to get a little worried about Yankee influence that I know will happen.

Tags: 2007, topten Comments

Holy Crap! When Did I Become a Hippie?

hippie

I can’t pinpoint the exact moment it happened, but sometime over the past couple of years, we’ve turned into total Earth-loving hippies. No, I don’t have long shaggy hair, wear Birkenstocks, and listen to Phish bootlegs (although my hair is pretty long at the moment and I have done the other two at various points in my life), but we have made many small changes in our lives to make us a more earth-friendly household. It wasn’t as if we woke up one day and decided to change everything, but over the course of time, it occurred to us that many small changes could add up to a larger impact.

I suppose, like most things, it started with food. We obviously care greatly about what we put into our body, and for a number of years, have sought to support local, sustainable, and humane producers of pretty much everything we eat, from fruits and vegetables to chicken and meat and seafood. Not only does the food taste better, but it’s better for the land it’s produced on, the farmer that grows it, and the community that supports it. It’s a total win-win situation for everyone. Of course, because these products aren’t coming from the mega-farms that have taken over the American landscape, they can cost more, and they’re harder to find. You’re not going to find a lot of these products at your average grocery store, so it takes a visit to a farmer’s market or a specialty grocery store like Whole Foods or Trader Joe’s to stock up. Luckily, we chose to live in a location with easy access to all of these stores, and this was not a coincidence. We know how we cook and how we eat, and it’s extremely important to us to be able to shop the way that we do. As we looked at houses a couple of years back, we literally mapped the house locations to see how far away they were from our stores. Anything more than 15 or 20 minutes was out. We know that we’re lucky to have these things nearby, and it’s not something that we take for granted.

Of course, the next question that is asked is “paper or plastic?” For us, the answer is neither. We’ve been using our own canvas shopping bags for a couple of years now, which wasn’t necessarily an environmental decision at first. It was just easy. The bags are big and easy to carry, so you can just throw it over your shoulder. Also, they’re big enough so that a week’s worth of produce fits nicely in only 2 bags. They’re so much easier to carry in from the car now, and we don’t have to deal with a pile of plastic bags overflowing from cabinets or closets. Without the bags, we would easily gain 5 or 6 plastic bags from a single trip. Over the course of a week, this could add up to 12 or 15 bags. Of course, we could have just been using paper bags all of the time, but in many grocery stores, that’s either not an option, or they’ve made the paper bags so small that they’re pretty much useless. See, just another small step.

Next, comes the lawn. Like every other proud American homeowner, I want a nice thick, lush, green lawn. All perfectly manicured and the envy of the neighborhood. Last year was my first year with our lawn, and I was excited to maintain it and keep it looking beautiful. I overseeded, fertilized, used weed killers, watered often, and kept the grass nice and trimmed. Still, while I was spreading fertilizer, it never sat well with me that the stuff was basically poisonous. It warned to keep pets and pregnant women away, and warned not to get it on your hands or clothes. Hmm, is this something that I really want to spreading around my yard? Once George entered the picture, the chemical fertilizers were out. He eats pretty much every stick and leaf he can find, and with him being so low to the ground, it would be impossible to keep using the stuff. It was time to move to the organic stuff: basically chicken poop. It didn’t quite smell so nice, and the aroma pretty much drove George nuts as he ran around trying to eat it all, but it did a decent job of keeping the lawn well-fed and green. This year, I’m going to attempt to go 100% organic with this guide. I’m even considering ditching my gas-powered mower and move to an electric one. We’ll see what happens.

On a recent trip to Home Depot, I went to check out what sort of organic products that they carried, seeing as how the answer last year was pretty much none. Well, thankfully, they’ve changed their tune and are carrying the line of organic products from Scotts and Miracle Gro. The only problem? This. Guess which poultry company they’re getting their chicken waste from? Tyson: One of the worst mega-farms and offenders of pollution, poor labor practices, and awful treatment of their animals. Not to mention all of the synthetic feed and hormones that they pump into their chickens. OK, so maybe this is actually helping them be a better company by finding an alternative outlet for their waste, but by buying these products, am I supporting their other actions? Yes, quite a moral dilemma. I may just have to find another brand of organic lawn care products instead.

Speaking of recycling, we’ve become recycling freaks. Every piece of paper, plastic, cardboard, and glass that we dispose of gets recycled. It used to be that we’d just recyle our bottles and cans and newspapers, but now it’s our junk mail, cereal boxes, every plastic food container, and beauty product that gets disposed of. So much that our weekly “trash” is down to a single 13 gallon trash bag. I can’t tell you how nice it is to have a single light bag to bring out on trash night. OK, so on recycling night, it’s a little more work, but not much. It doesn’t take any more effort to throw something in the recycling bin than it does to throw it in the trash. Once again, we’re lucky to have curbside recycling in our town, and we take advantage of it. Of course our next step to reduce the amount of household waste will be composting, which will start in the spring.

With the imminent arrival of a baby, we know that we’ll be spending plenty of time crawling around on the floor, and of course babies love to put everything they can find into their mouths. What exactly are you cleaning the floor with? Well, more chemicals, of course. An easy switch to using Method products for all of our cleaning supplies takes care of that one. Not only are they Earth-friendly, but they also smell very nice. They cost no more than other cleaners, and I like knowing that I can lick the floor if I want. Of course, you can’t talk about babies and earth-friendliness without talking about diapers. It would be nice to be able to use cloth diapers, but without a diaper service nearby and the fact that the baby will be spending a lot of time at daycare, it just doesn’t make sense. At the very least, we can buy diapers that have less of an environmental impact, despite the fact that we’re disposing of them. Again, the price difference is minimal, and it will give us that warm fuzzy feeling inside. Or at least until we give up and just buy whatever’s on sale.

Recently, we’ve swapped out many of our normal light bulbs with compact fluorescents, bought an insulated wrap for our water heater, weatherstripped and caulked every hole and crack in sight, and taken other measured to reduce the energy usage in our home. Again, they’re all simple things that don’t cost much money or effort, but when you add them up, they make a big difference.

I’m not trying to sound like some sort of saint or claim that we’re better than everyone else because we’re doing these things. It’s not about that. I just sort of stopped and looked around the other day at how we had transformed the way we live one baby step at a time. It wasn’t some sort of radical life-altering experiment, but a series of choices to do the “right thing”. I know that there’s more that we can do and some things that can’t or won’t do. But when given the option of buying a product or supporting a company that helps the environment or one that knowingly hurts it, it’s hard not to make the right choice. I guess the biggest difference now is that we actually know that there are choices to be made. Might as well make some good ones.

Tags: 2007 Comments

4/2/2007

  • We had our all-day childbirth class on Saturday. Nine straight hours of baby stuff, which is just a bit more than the brain can handle in one day. Luckily, the nurse running the class was great and had a good sense of humor and lots of funny stories, which made it a little more bearable. Although the best thing I learned in the class was that our hospital equips newborns with a baby lojack system. There’s only one way in and out of the maternity floor, and if some one tries to bring a baby near the bank of elevators, alarms go off and the elevators shut down. No one’s stealing our baby! I also learned that labor seems like pretty much the most uncomfortable and painful and I-just-don’t-get-how-the-body-does-that experience in the world. I love being a guy!
  • Our brains were pretty much mush after the class, and we both proceeded to pass out at 9:30pm. We are quite the big partiers these days.
  • With two young kids, two newborns, and two dogs wreaking havoc, our family’s Passover seder broke new land-speed records this weekend. I think this one clocked in at about five minutes. Not that I’m complaining.
  • I sit at a computer for the majority of my days, and due to the way that I sit, my left elbow is constantly rubbing against my desk. Over the course of time, I’ve managed to wear holes in almost every one of my longsleeve shirts in my left elbow. It’s getting to the point where my favorite shirts in the world, the ones that I’ve been wearing consistently for about seven years, are all simultaneously getting holes in the elbow. I guess I’ll either have to start replacing all of my shirts, or start sitting differently. Can I charge these new shirts to the company or file for disability or workman’s comp? I’m going to miss my shirts.
  • According to my records, my last haircut was back in mid-November. That means that it’s been four and a half months since my last one. Yes, it’s time for a trim. I have to get a new driver’s license photo very soon, and there will soon be lots and lots of baby photos being taken, and I’d rather not have to look back at them years from now and wonder what the hell I was thinking with my long shaggy hair. Of course, four months from now, my long shaggy hair will most likely be back. Now here’s my problem: the person who’s been cutting my hair for the last year or two has left the salon, and I no longer feel like driving a long distance to get my hair cut. So I’m looking for something close to my house. Hopefully, this story won’t end badly.
  • We’ve got the wall art ready to go for the baby’s room. I don’t know how the Lovely Suse found them, but these great farm animal prints are perfect for the room. And not wanting to spend a fortune on framing them, we found this Ebay store for ordering frames and mats that fit them perfectly. I love being a cheap bastard.
  • I watched Superman Returns last week, and I have to admit, the first time that the music kicks in and you see Superman fly through the sky, I sort of got chills. The rest of the movie was just ok, sort of just rehashing what all of the other movies have done, but it’s still nice to seem revive the franchise.
  • No one has the ability to return stuff like I do. It’s the only good acting that I’ve ever been capable of, but somehow, I’m able to return items to stores without any receipts or tags or anything. Let’s just say that the credit we got for our old kitchen stools is now being used for a much better purpose.

Tags: 2007, topten Comments